feat(sklearn): add recursive_strict parameter to patch()

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Description of change

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• Code is up-to-date with the main branch
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Codecov Report

Merging #86 (1eb5e22) into main (41f231c) will decrease coverage by 0.82%.
The diff coverage is 18.18%.

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- Coverage   57.39%   56.57%   -0.82%     
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  Branches       98      104       +6     
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  Hits          357      357              
- Misses        250      257       +7     
- Partials       15       17       +2     

Files	Coverage Δ
src/boost_loss/sklearn.py	58.09% <18.18%> (-5.45%)	⬇️

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