Continue to replace pod by label when encountering replace update

[ColdsteelRail]

Minimal reproduce step

1. prepare a collaset with 1 replicas
2. replace the pod using podopslifecycle.kusionstack.io/to-replace label
3. at the same time, update collaset with replace update

pod replace is forced to be finished by deleting replace new pod, and encountering endless reconcling bug

for inplace update

for recreate update

What did you expect to see?

replace update do not start until replace pod finished

What did you see instead

replace update and pod replace execute at the same time, encountering bug

What is your KusionStack components and its version?

latest, main