Just made a new linux server, xiloader connects then..

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hey there i just created a new linux ffxi private server, i got it where i can connect to xiloader, but when i try to login, i enter details, then it just goes back to the choices, the log on the server says this

"[12/21/24 17:35:03:022][connect][info] ======================================================================= (Application:71)
[12/21/24 17:35:03:022][connect][info] Seeding Mersenne Twister 64 bit RNG (seed:42)
[12/21/24 17:35:03:026][connect][info] Found existing login.key (generateSelfSignedCert:38)
[12/21/24 17:35:03:027][connect][info] Found existing login.cert: /O=LSB self-signed certificate for login server/CN=0.0.0.0 (generateSelfSignedCert:57)
[12/21/24 17:35:03:027][connect][info] creating ports (ConnectServer:77)
[12/21/24 17:35:03:037][connect][info] starting io_context (ConnectServer:89)
[12/21/24 17:41:19:243][connect][error] Could not connect to address=(host=192.168.50.61)(port=3306)(type=master) : Can't connect to server on '192.168.50.61' (115) (operator():92)"

i cant for the life of me figure out whats wrong, i have all the ports open on router for the server, even opened up 3306, on the router what should the local port be? it defaults it at 88