[Enhancement] support sink rowdata filter

[lyu302]

Suport sink rowdata filter: accept function with return on StarRocksSinkRowBuilder。

With dynamic partition，we may get some data which the partition field value is out of start and end on properties settings。
For Example:

1. Error data on log , 1754-08-31 06:48:43
2. Kafka consume lag

The row is out of partition ranges. Please add a new partition..

Uage:

   @Override
    public void accept(Object[] objects, Row row) { 
         // filter with some condition
         if (filter) 
             return;

         objects[i] = row.getField(field);         
    }

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