refactor: enhance clustering options

[Tochemey]

• WithClustering accept additional parameters to setup the cluster mode
• Better cluster provider configuration
• Host node information is no longer fetched from hidden env vars
• Dependencies upgrade

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 67.34694% with 16 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 87.00%. Comparing base (6f6452f) to head (672b04a).

Files	Patch %	Lines
actors/actor_system.go	60.86%	7 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️
actors/pid_map.go	61.11%	5 Missing and 2 partials ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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+ Coverage   86.75%   87.00%   +0.24%     
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  Files          32       32              
  Lines        2998     2985      -13     
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- Hits         2601     2597       -4     
+ Misses        285      274      -11     
- Partials      112      114       +2     

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