Cleanup job/stage status from TaskManager and clean up shuffle data after a period after JobFinished

[mingmwang]

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Today, there is no clean up logic to remove those job/stage status from StateBackend, the disk space might be exhausted quickly in a busy cluster.

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[mingmwang]

#9