[Bug][Sort] Fix kafka extract node option config building error when use upsert-kafka connector

[gong]

What happened

kafka extract node option congfig building error when use upsert-kafka connector. upsert-kafka connector don't support options: scan.startup.mode,scan.startup.specific-offsets,scan.startup.timestamp-millis.

What you expected to happen

build right config

How to reproduce

just use upsert-kafka connector by sort build dataflow config

Environment

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InLong version

master

InLong Component

InLong Sort

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