chore(query): replace arrow2 with arrow-rs in serialize_column and deserialize_column

[forsaken628]

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Summary

This may be able to fix #16651

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[sundy-li]

This work may conflict with cc @andylokandy .

We can have this one. @andylokandy should convert BinaryView --> BinaryArray and use this function.