fix: use cibuildwheel package and add tests

[oboulant]

GHActions supposed to build and upload both the wheels and SDist to Pypi failed (timeout after 6 hours) : https://github.com/deepcharles/ruptures/actions/runs/1291048776 failed

• Instead of using joerick/cibuildwheel@v1.9.0, we now use the cibuildwheel package directly. It allowed us to get rid of the manual include and exclude in the matrix for the build_wheels job
• As a bonus, now wheels for Python v3.9 on Windows.
• We explicitly ask not to build wheels
  • for Python v3.10
  • for PyPy
• We manually force a version (and avoid building local wheels, the ones with 0.1.dev1 prefix)
• We added a immediate test of the built wheels (feature offered by cibuildwheel via CIBW_TEST_REQUIRES and CIBW_TEST_COMMAND
• We switch from actions/checkout@v1 to actions/checkout@v2
• Removed an incompatible pytest option in pyproject.toml

[deepcharles]

Very cool!