Enhance the ownerRef helper in SDK

[cmwylie19]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

Need to add more finalizer support and protect "owned" resources so they don't get deleted unless the owning object is deleted.

  const { name, uid } = instance.metadata!;

  return [
    {
      apiVersion: instance.apiVersion!,
      kind: instance.kind!,
      uid: uid!,
      name: name!,
      controller: true, // add
      blockOwnerDeletion: true, // add
    },
  ];
}

Kubernetes Docs around ownerRefs

Describe the solution you'd like

• Given a controller deploys a deployment that is owned by a WebApp
• When someone tries to delete the deployment
• Then deletion is blocked until the WebApp is deleted

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