ECONNRESET, user aborted the request

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*Please describe the problem you are having in as much detail as possible:
After running a bot for ~ 5 hours or more, the send function likes to start "failing". It fails on this particular handle, not in any other handler.

Include a reproducible code sample here, if possible:
I don't know if its reproducible, this one send is the only one that fails with a ~ 70% success rate.
All other sends are fine.

// basic version
const studentMessage = ({tag, content, url}) =>
({
    content: `**Student :** \`${tag}\`
                  **Message :** ${content}`,
   files:       [url] 
});

const result = await Promise.allSettled([
   // fails after the bot ran for ~ 5 hours or more, doesn't fail before that
    qTicket.coach.send(studentMessage(qTicket)),
  ]);

Further details:

• discord.js version: "discord.js": "^12.2.0",
• Node.js version: v14.9.0
• Operating system: Linux x64 5.4.57-1-MANJARO and Ubuntu 20.04.1 LTS, 5.4.0-47-generic
• Priority this issue should have – please be realistic and elaborate if possible:

Normal priority ? I can imagine that this is a pretty annoying thing that users might run into - It is "solved" by restarting the bot every couple of hours, but that isn't really a viable option, even if the bot is stateless. I would rather not have to do that :D

Relevant client options:

• partials: none
• gateway intents: none
• other: none

• I have also tested the issue on latest master, commit hash: