Ensure span data quality for all Node performance instrumentation

[mydea]

We need to ensure we have the correct op, origin, and good names, for all spans we emit via OpenTelemetry.

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1. feat(node): Ensure express spans have better data #12107
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2. feat(node): Ensure koa spans have better data #12108
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3. feat(node): Ensure fastify spans have better data #12106
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4. feat(node): Ensure connect spans have better data #12130
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5. feat(node): Ensure Nest.js spans have better data #12139
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6. Ensure Hapi spans have good data
7. Ensure Prisma spans have good data #12234
   Feature: Spans Integration: prisma Package-Meta: OpenTelemetry Package: node +4
8. Ensure MySQL spans have good data
9. Ensure MySQL2 spans have good data
10. Ensure GraphQL spans have good data
11. Ensure Redis spans have good data
12. Ensure Postgres spans ahve good data
13. URL parameterization not taking into account express routers in v8 #12103
    Package: node Type: Bug +2