feat(workspaces): add --topological-order flag

[darcyclarke]

Summary

npm has enough information to properly run workspace commands in an order that should be ideal for the workspaces.

Exit Criteria

• default is false
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Links & References

• [BUG] Prepare scripts in workspaces should wait for dependencies cli#3034 (comment)
• [RRFC] Add flag for running NPM commands in transitive dependencies rfcs#548

[Prashant7451]

@darcyclarke Hey i want to fix this problem,can u share me all the preferences to related issue?

[bnb]

is there a reason not to do --order=topological?

[ljharb]

Only when you know that the tasks you’re running can be done in any order.

[niemyjski]

This should be the default... Currently the build happens out of order even though there are package dependencies between workspace packages.