prov/ucx: fi_rdm_tagged_peek cleanup race condition

[zachdworkin]

Describe the bug
fi_rdm_tagged_peek has a race condition cleanup error where the process segmentation faults when trying to close the endpoint

To Reproduce
Build with UCX
server_cmd: fi_rdm_tagged_peek -p ucx -E
client_cmd: fi_rdm_tagged_peek -p ucx -E server_address

Expected behavior
Test passes successfuly

Output
Server output:
server_cmd: /path_to_fabtests_install/fi_rdm_tagged_peek -p "ucx" -E
server_stdout: |
Sending 10 tagged messages
Waiting for messages to complete
[node:3176869:0:3176869] Caught signal 11 (Segmentation fault: address not mapped to object at address 0x8)
==== backtrace (tid:3176869) ====
0 0x0000000000012cf0 __funlockfile() :0
1 0x0000000000033210 ucp_ep_destroy_base() ???:0
2 0x000000000004b3ee ucp_worker_discard_uct_ep_progress() ???:0
3 0x000000000004b4b5 ucp_worker_destroy() ???:0
4 0x00000000000ca7fa ucx_ep_close() ucx_ep.c:0
5 0x0000000000404081 fi_close() /path_to_libfabric_install/include/rdma/fabric.h:632
6 0x0000000000404081 ft_close_fids() /path_to_libfabric_source/fabtests/common/shared.c:1792
7 0x0000000000404b6a ft_free_res() /path_to_libfabric_source/fabtests/common/shared.c:1862
8 0x0000000000401bfa main() /hpath_to_libfabric_source/fabtests/functional/rdm_tagged_peek.c:364
9 0x0000000000401bfa main() /path_to_libfabric_source/fabtests/functional/rdm_tagged_peek.c:365
10 0x000000000003ad85 __libc_start_main() ???:0
11 0x000000000040203e _start() ???:0

Client output:
client_cmd: /path_to_fabtests_install/fi_rdm_tagged_peek -p "ucx" -E server_address
client_stdout: |
Peek for a bad msg
Peek w/ claim for a bad msg
Peek msg 1
Receive msg 1
Peek w/ claim msg 2
Receive claimed msg 2
Peek & discard msg 3
Checking to see if msg 3 was discarded
Peek w/ claim msg 4
Claim and discard msg 4
Receive msg 5
Receive msg 6
Receive msg 10
Receive msg 9
Receive msg 8
Receive msg 7

Environment:
rocky 8.7

Additional context
Fails as a race condition. No known 100% fail case.

[zachdworkin]

Revert #10124's ucx test disable when this is resolved.