fix(courier): add ability to specify backoff

[aeneasr]

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Codecov Report

Merging #2349 (0e2ecd5) into master (852f24f) will decrease coverage by 0.00%.
The diff coverage is 40.00%.

❗ Current head 0e2ecd5 differs from pull request most recent head f93ba6f. Consider uploading reports for the commit f93ba6f to get more accurate results

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##           master    #2349      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   76.56%   76.56%   -0.01%     
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  Files         318      318              
  Lines       17294    17298       +4     
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+ Hits        13242    13244       +2     
- Misses       3119     3121       +2     
  Partials      933      933              

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
courier/courier.go	73.33% <40.00%> (-3.59%)	⬇️

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