Add ability to update menu items

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The user should get back a menu id (or even a menu item struct?) they can do whatever with, and should be able to use it as reference to update a menu item if they need to.

[2ndTaleStudio]

Hey there, is this being worked on? The issues related to disable, delete, update menu items seem to be here already for quite a while and I'd love to see this functionality coming as we'd require this for our current project.

Thx in advance for any feedback on this.

[qdot]

The project is being actively worked on (or at least I've got some PRs to bring in), but this issue isn't currently.