Can not support hmr x include files inside node_modules

[Jinjiang]

Describe the bug

When modifying files inside node_modules, the HMR doesn't work.

I guess it's because this line of code reject the following logics
https://github.com/vitejs/vite-plugin-react/blob/main/packages/plugin-react/src/index.ts#L165

async transform(code, id, options) {
  if (id.includes('/node_modules/')) return
  ...
}

Maybe it could be simply combined with opt.include to let those files pass.

Thanks.

Reproduction

https://github.com/Jinjiang/reproductions/tree/vite-react-hmr-202404

Steps to reproduce

• pnpm install and pnpm dev
• modify node_modules/foo/index.mjs to see whether the page is reloaded

System Info

System:
    OS: macOS 14.4.1
    CPU: (8) arm64 Apple M1
    Memory: 79.17 MB / 8.00 GB
    Shell: 5.9 - /bin/zsh
  Binaries:
    Node: 20.11.1 - ~/.local/share/mise/installs/node/20/bin/node
    Yarn: 1.22.18 - ~/.yarn/bin/yarn
    npm: 10.2.4 - ~/.local/share/mise/installs/node/20/bin/npm
    pnpm: 8.15.5 - ~/Library/pnpm/pnpm
    bun: 1.0.29 - ~/.local/share/mise/installs/bun/latest/bin/bun
  Browsers:
    Safari: 17.4.1
  npmPackages:
    @vitejs/plugin-react: ^4.2.1 => 4.2.1 
    vite: ^5.2.8 => 5.2.8

Used Package Manager

pnpm

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