fix: reload on restart with middleware mode (fixes #9038)

[sapphi-red]

Description

The reload after server restart was not working with middleware mode since 3.0.0-alpha.0.

fixes #9038
refs #6819

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  • I'll create a test in vite-setup-catalogue later.

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