need a way for preset which can get users themselves to config whether they want some plugins added

[yuicer]

What problem does this feature solve?

with remote preset , i can dicide which plugin should be added , and if it's needed, i can have a "prompts" to config.
but , users wants to decide which plugin should be added themselves . so do we have some solutions for this?

What does the proposed API look like?

"plugins": {
    "@vue/cli-plugin-eslint": {
      "userDecideToHave": true,
      "prompts": true
    }
 }

maybe something like this? or do we have another way?

[haoqunjiang]

See: #2529 (comment)

I'm closing this issue in favor of #1938 because that's more general.