feat(schema): add BigInt support, upgrade mongodb -> 5.3.0

[vkarpov15]

Fix #13081
Fix #6936

Summary

Add support for BigInt as a schema type, now that MongoDB driver supports it and all Node.js versions (and Deno) that Mongoose supports have support for BigInt.

Still WIP:

1. Test query casting ($gt, etc.)
2. populate()

Examples

[hasezoey]

i think useBigInt64 still needs to be added to the documentation (likely at Query.prototype.setOptions?)

also SchemaBigInt would need to be added to the list in Schema.Types (which seemingly is also missing UUID, subdocumentpath and documentarray)

[vkarpov15]

@hasezoey this PR adds mongoose.Schema.Types.BigInt, see below node shell output

$ node
Welcome to Node.js v16.17.0.
Type ".help" for more information.
> const mongoose = require('./')
undefined
> mongoose.Schema.Types.BigInt
[Function: SchemaBigInt] {
  schemaName: 'BigInt',
  defaultOptions: {},
  _cast: [Function: castBigInt],
  set: [Function: set],
  cast: [Function: cast],
  _checkRequired: [Function (anonymous)],
  checkRequired: [Function (anonymous)],
  '$conditionalHandlers': {
    '$gt': [Function: handleSingle],
    '$gte': [Function: handleSingle],
    '$lt': [Function: handleSingle],
    '$lte': [Function: handleSingle],
    '$type': [Function (anonymous)],
    '$exists': [Function (anonymous)],
    '$nin': [Function: handle$in],
    '$ne': [Function: handleSingle],
    '$in': [Function: handle$in],
    '$eq': [Function: handleSingle],
    '$all': [Function: handleArray]
  }
}
> 

[vkarpov15]

I'll add useBigInt64 to the docs, but for the most part you don't have to use that. I added it to the API docs and docs on lean() though just in case.

[hasezoey]

also SchemaBigInt would need to be added to the list in Schema.Types (which seemingly is also missing UUID, subdocumentpath and documentarray)

@hasezoey this PR adds mongoose.Schema.Types.BigInt, see below node shell output

sorry i wasnt clear, i meant at:

mongoose/lib/schema.js

Lines 2658 to 2667 in f50a194

	* #### Types:
	*
	* - [String](/docs/schematypes.html#strings)
	* - [Number](/docs/schematypes.html#numbers)
	* - [Boolean](/docs/schematypes.html#booleans) | Bool
	* - [Array](/docs/schematypes.html#arrays)
	* - [Buffer](/docs/schematypes.html#buffers)
	* - [Date](/docs/schematypes.html#dates)
	* - [ObjectId](/docs/schematypes.html#objectids) | Oid
	* - [Mixed](/docs/schematypes.html#mixed)

[vkarpov15]

@hasezoey good point, fixed 👍

[hasezoey]

LGTM

[hasezoey]

seems like esprima does not like big numbers (the n at the end), we probably need to look into updating that in the future (used by acquit and nyc?)