Enforce c++ 17

[lukasdreyer]

Describe your changes here:
Enforce C++17

Uses https://www.gnu.org/software/autoconf-archive/ax_cxx_compile_stdcxx.html

Also limits the number of processes for the make check command in the github actions workflow to 8, because leaving it unlimited lead to weird racing conditions during compiling in the docker container. This could not be replicated when manually trying to repeat the build process in the docker container.

All these boxes must be checked by the reviewers before merging the pull request:

As a reviewer please read through all the code lines and make sure that the code is fully understood, bug free, well-documented and well-structured.

General

• The reviewer executed the new code features at least once and checked the results manually

• The code follows the t8code coding guidelines

• New source/header files are properly added to the Makefiles

• The code is well documented

• All function declarations, structs/classes and their members have a proper doxygen documentation

• All new algorithms and data structures are sufficiently optimal in terms of memory and runtime (If this should be merged, but there is still potential for optimization, create a new issue)

Tests

• The code is covered in an existing or new test case using Google Test

Github action

• The code compiles without warning in debugging and release mode, with and without MPI (this should be executed automatically in a github action)

• All tests pass (in various configurations, this should be executed automatically in a github action)

  If the Pull request introduces code that is not covered by the github action (for example coupling with a new library):

  • Should this use case be added to the github action?
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Licence

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