refactor: refactor CacheInvalidator

[WenyXu]

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#3516
fix #2369

What's changed and what's your intention?

Use the InvalidateCaches instruction instead of InvalidateTableId and InvalidateTableName To avoid some cache inconsistency issues.

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• I have written the necessary rustdoc comments.
• I have added the necessary unit tests and integration tests.
• This PR does not require documentation updates.

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 97.01493% with 2 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 84.98%. Comparing base (bbcdb28) to head (868ebe8).
Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

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[fengjiachun]

LGTM