fix: correctly open table when distributed datanode restart

[MichaelScofield]

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What's changed and what's your intention?

fix #402

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• Summarize your change (mandatory)

1. correctly open table when distributed datanode restart
2. concat node_id in data dir and wal dir of datanode, when it is started in distributed mode
3. upgrade opensrv-mysql to latest version 0.2
4. add --data-dir and --wal-dir to command line options, to indicate dn's data dir and wal dir in distributed mode.

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• I have added the necessary unit tests and integration tests.

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Codecov Report

Merging #576 (aae5624) into develop (ca5734e) will decrease coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is 67.13%.

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src/api/src/error.rs	35.71% <0.00%> (-5.96%)	⬇️
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src/catalog/src/local/manager.rs	66.36% <0.00%> (-0.21%)	⬇️
src/catalog/src/remote/manager.rs	70.04% <0.00%> (-0.47%)	⬇️
src/datanode/src/error.rs	62.19% <0.00%> (-0.77%)	⬇️
src/frontend/src/error.rs	9.25% <0.00%> (-0.36%)	⬇️
src/query/src/optimizer.rs	79.59% <ø> (-0.33%)	⬇️
src/table/src/requests.rs	25.00% <ø> (ø)
src/servers/src/mysql/writer.rs	70.76% <42.85%> (-5.30%)	⬇️
src/servers/src/mysql/handler.rs	68.04% <44.44%> (+2.82%)	⬆️
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[MichaelScofield]

@killme2008 PTAL

[killme2008]

Good job. The PR content may need to be edited too.

[MichaelScofield]

@killme2008 PTAL

[killme2008]

LGTM

[MichaelScofield]

@v0y4g3r PTAL

[v0y4g3r]

Generally LGTM