feat(#2945): AsyncDaemonHealthCheck - add maxSameLagTime option

[MateuszNaKodach]

First implementation version to discuss for:
#2945

This PR also fixes bug in the previous implementation: Unhelathy state when no events stored and HighWaterMark not present.

disclaimer:
I may use FakeTimeProvider from Microsoft.Extensions.TimeProvider.Testing for tests, but:

Install failed (project: Marten.AsyncDaemon.Testing, package: Microsoft.Extensions.TimeProvider.Testing v8.1.0) Package restore failed. Rolling back package changes for 'Marten.AsyncDaemon.Testing'. Detected package version outside of dependency constraint: Lamar 12.1.0 requires Microsoft.Extensions.DependencyInjection.Abstractions (>= 6.0.0 && 8.0.0) but version Microsoft.Extensions.DependencyInjection. ... e this issue. Marten.AsyncDaemon.Testing -> Microsoft.Extensions.TimeProvider.Testing 8.1.0 -> Microsoft.Bcl.TimeProvider 8.0.1 -> Microsoft.Bcl.AsyncInterfaces (>= 8.0.0) Marten.AsyncDaemon.Testing -> EventSourcingTests -> Lamar 12.1.0 -> Microsoft.Bcl.AsyncInterfaces (>= 6.0.0 && 8.0.0).

[jeremydmiller]

@MateuszNaKodach I'd like to just take this in for now, but consider any further concerns as part of the grander "how do we manage projections in production" story here: #2968

[jeremydmiller]

And I'll deal w/ the fussy markdown lint stuff, no worries on that account.

[jeremydmiller]

Got it from the CLI. @MateuszNaKodach Big thanks for this one!

[MateuszNaKodach]

@jeremydmiller Thanks a lot :) It was a pleasure to add this nano portion of code to such a great project as Marten.