Respect load strictness when calling load_state_dict

[mikolajblaz]

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model.dist_ckpt_load_strictness allows to ignore mismatches during checkpoint loading.
Still, loading a state dict can yield errors. This PR ensures this flag is respected also during load_state_dict.

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