Part of a series of changes to clean up the instantiation of connman by decoupling the command line arguments.

  Coming from btc@ce79f3251851f6177f38009341802e6065cb70af

Part of a series of changes to clean up the instantiation of connman by decoupling the command line arguments.  We also now abort with an error when explicit binds are set with -listen=0.

Coming from btc@ce79f3251851f6177f38009341802e6065cb70af

Start of a series of changes to clean up the instantiation of connman by decoupling the command line arguments.

Split the "-connect" argument parsing out of CConnman and put it into AppInitMain().

…equest& request)

Forgotten in 506b700

* writing variable 'nTotalBytesRecv' requires holding mutex 'cs_totalBytesRecv' exclusively
* writing variables 'nTotalBytesSent' require holding mutex 'cs_totalBytesSent' exclusively
* writing variable 'vAddedNodes' requires holding mutex 'cs_vAddedNodes' exclusively

Backports btc@63f21d27ee463dafc32982d1ac50a1032449dd36 without the nMaxOut* variable changes that we don't have.