[AutoParallel]:fix ernine auto_trainer error

[blacksheep-Aristotle]

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Description

目前中层api和基础api统一用lazy gurd，在auto_trainer创建时初始化param以保证中层api和基础api的初始化权重一致。
可能存在场景：param在auto_trainer创建时还未初始化，且在auto_trainer创建后分配init_func，导致Ernie_ci error。
本pr用warning代替assert，减少代码error的场景。

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Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 4 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 52.21%. Comparing base (67bc4e2) to head (5eee41a).
Report is 5 commits behind head on develop.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
paddlenlp/trainer/auto_trainer.py	0.00%	4 Missing ⚠️

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