driver doesn't build under bazel 3.5.0

[RussTedrake]

due to bazelbuild/bazel#8706 .

Commenting out the nocopts in opencv.bzl got me going, but it would be good to resolve. @sammy-tri -- might you be able to fix?

INFO: Invocation ID: 5317b0c3-5f82-4388-93df-d3dbfe1db50a
ERROR: /home/russt/.cache/bazel/_bazel_russt/ce60b3f3ea80608835f5b9053fbb374f/external/opencv/BUILD.bazel:55:14: in nocopts attribute of cc_binary rule @opencv//:libopencv_cudev.so: This attribute was removed. See https://github.com/bazelbuild/bazel/issues/8706 for details.. Since this rule was created by the macro 'opencv_module', the error might have been caused by the macro implementation
ERROR: /home/russt/.cache/bazel/_bazel_russt/ce60b3f3ea80608835f5b9053fbb374f/external/opencv/BUILD.bazel:55:14: in nocopts attribute of cc_binary rule @opencv//:libopencv_cudev.so: This attribute was removed. See https://github.com/bazelbuild/bazel/issues/8706 for details.. Since this rule was created by the macro 'opencv_module', the error might have been caused by the macro implementation
ERROR: Analysis of target '//rgbd_sensor:rgbd_sensor' failed; build aborted: Analysis failed

[jwnimmer-tri]

In tools/bazel.rc for this project, add this line.

build --incompatible_disable_nocopts=false

That's what we do in Anzu.