chore: Show tooltip conditionally and pass ref down

[geido]

SUMMARY

This PR allows showing the tooltip conditionally as well as passing down the ref.

IMPORTANT

Required to be merged first to enable PR apache/superset#16060

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[kgabryje]

LGTM

[villebro]

LGTM, I look forward to this 👍

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Codecov Report

Merging #1271 (760a430) into master (ec7b2f3) will increase coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is 50.00%.

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+ Coverage   30.04%   30.08%   +0.03%     
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  Files         476      485       +9     
  Lines        9669     9730      +61     
  Branches     1598     1613      +15     
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+ Hits         2905     2927      +22     
- Misses       6538     6575      +37     
- Partials      226      228       +2     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...-ui-chart-controls/src/components/ColumnOption.tsx	76.92% <50.00%> (-13.08%)	⬇️
...-ui-chart-controls/src/components/MetricOption.tsx	55.55% <50.00%> (-0.70%)	⬇️
plugins/plugin-chart-table/src/TableChart.tsx	41.12% <0.00%> (-1.02%)	⬇️
...onents/ColumnConfigControl/ColumnConfigControl.tsx	2.17% <0.00%> (-0.46%)	⬇️
plugins/plugin-chart-table/src/controlPanel.tsx	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
packages/superset-ui-chart-controls/src/types.ts	100.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...s/plugin-chart-pivot-table/src/PivotTableChart.tsx	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...lugin-chart-pivot-table/src/plugin/controlPanel.ts	12.50% <0.00%> (ø)
...-ui-chart-controls/src/utils/getColorFormatters.ts	100.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...trols/components/ColumnConfigControl/constants.tsx	100.00% <0.00%> (ø)
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