ARROW-8316: [CI] Set docker-compose to use docker-cli instead of docker-py for building images

[kszucs]

The build cache sometimes works sometimes doesn't.

The images pushed from the master branch were sometimes producing reusable layers, sometimes not. So the caching was working non-deterministically.

The underlying issue is docker/compose#883

[github-actions]

https://issues.apache.org/jira/browse/ARROW-8316

[kszucs]

I've tested it on my fork with the AMD64 Conda C++ image:

1. Build and upload the produced docker images to my dockerhub account, the image was built without using any cache
2. Trigger a new build to see that the cached layers are properly reused
3. Pull the image locally and rebuild it so check that the cache is used. Previously my local docker daemon wasn't reusing the images pushed to apache/arrow-dev, but the newly produced image is properly reused locally (for me at least).

Theoretically the passed flag enables to both docker-compose and docker use the layer hashes.

[pitrou]

Does something remain to be done here?

[kszucs]

+1