[fix](thirdparty) Disable BRPC 1.4 contention profiler to avoid deadl…

…ock (#41891)

BRPC contention profiler hooks pthread mutex, which may deadlock when
used with Jemalloc.
This PR remove pthread mutex hook and disable BRPC contention profiler.


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similar issue: apache/brpc#2726
reference fix: apache/brpc#2727

thirdparty/download-thirdparty.sh

@@ -454,7 +454,7 @@ if [[ " ${TP_ARCHIVES[*]} " =~ " BRPC " ]]; then
         if [[ ! -f "${PATCHED_MARK}" ]]; then
             for patch_file in "${TP_PATCH_DIR}"/brpc-*; do
                 echo "patch ${patch_file}"
-                patch -p1 <"${patch_file}"
+                patch -p1 --ignore-whitespace <"${patch_file}"
             done
             touch "${PATCHED_MARK}"
         fi