Fix xds long time wait

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Codecov Report

Merging #10729 (42d99a9) into 3.2 (840a2b9) will decrease coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is 0.00%.

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##                3.2   #10729      +/-   ##
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- Coverage     65.30%   65.26%   -0.04%     
+ Complexity      416      393      -23     
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  Files          1338     1338              
  Lines         57031    57034       +3     
  Branches       8430     8429       -1     
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- Hits          37244    37225      -19     
- Misses        15837    15857      +20     
- Partials       3950     3952       +2     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...o/registry/xds/util/protocol/AbstractProtocol.java	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
...he/dubbo/rpc/listener/ListenerExporterWrapper.java	68.00% <0.00%> (-20.00%)	⬇️
...rg/apache/dubbo/rpc/protocol/dubbo/DubboCodec.java	65.21% <0.00%> (-4.35%)	⬇️
...pache/dubbo/remoting/transport/AbstractServer.java	61.03% <0.00%> (-3.90%)	⬇️
...bo/rpc/protocol/dubbo/DecodeableRpcInvocation.java	77.88% <0.00%> (-3.85%)	⬇️
...mmon/threadpool/support/AbortPolicyWithReport.java	80.70% <0.00%> (-3.51%)	⬇️
...ache/dubbo/rpc/protocol/dubbo/DubboCountCodec.java	90.62% <0.00%> (-3.13%)	⬇️
.../apache/dubbo/remoting/transport/CodecSupport.java	81.53% <0.00%> (-3.08%)	⬇️
.../dubbo/registry/client/metadata/MetadataUtils.java	69.44% <0.00%> (-2.78%)	⬇️
...dubbo/rpc/cluster/directory/AbstractDirectory.java	80.51% <0.00%> (-1.95%)	⬇️
... and 10 more

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