[3.0] Improve monitor creating, handle errors

[kylixs]

What is the purpose of the change

Fix the problem that if an exception is thrown when creating a monitor, it is not handled correctly.

Brief changelog

Verifying this change

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[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Merging #7866 (b6ad94a) into 3.0 (dc54172) will decrease coverage by 0.11%.
The diff coverage is 70.00%.

@@             Coverage Diff              @@
##                3.0    #7866      +/-   ##
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- Coverage     58.68%   58.57%   -0.12%     
+ Complexity      326      325       -1     
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  Files          1081     1081              
  Lines         43845    43838       -7     
  Branches       6535     6535              
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- Hits          25730    25677      -53     
- Misses        15289    15323      +34     
- Partials       2826     2838      +12     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
.../dubbo/monitor/support/AbstractMonitorFactory.java	80.00% <70.00%> (+1.62%)	⬆️
...apache/dubbo/registry/retry/AbstractRetryTask.java	58.33% <0.00%> (-13.89%)	⬇️
...in/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/utils/JVMUtil.java	81.13% <0.00%> (-11.33%)	⬇️
...dubbo/remoting/exchange/support/DefaultFuture.java	85.47% <0.00%> (-7.70%)	⬇️
...he/dubbo/common/threadpool/ThreadlessExecutor.java	56.52% <0.00%> (-6.53%)	⬇️
...he/dubbo/common/config/CompositeConfiguration.java	67.39% <0.00%> (-4.35%)	⬇️
.../apache/dubbo/remoting/transport/AbstractPeer.java	67.39% <0.00%> (-4.35%)	⬇️
...ng/transport/dispatcher/WrappedChannelHandler.java	63.04% <0.00%> (-4.35%)	⬇️
...he/dubbo/remoting/transport/netty/NettyServer.java	70.17% <0.00%> (-3.51%)	⬇️
...org/apache/dubbo/rpc/protocol/AbstractInvoker.java	58.33% <0.00%> (-3.13%)	⬇️
... and 6 more

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