Bump Junit Platform to 5.10.3 to support using @EnabledInNativeImage on the test classes

[linghengqian]

For #29052.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• For Fixes @EnabledInNativeImage failure in some unit tests #30031 . Bump Junit Platform to 5.10.3 to support using @EnabledInNativeImage on the test classes. Refer to @EnabledInNativeImage is not properly supported at the class level junit-team/junit5#3745 .
• Bump org.graalvm.polyglot:polyglot to 24.0.1. This is mainly to further reduce the total execution time of the unit tests of org.apache.shardingsphere:shardingsphere-infra-expr-espresso.
• After updating testcontainers-java 1.19.8, its dependency com.github.docker-java:docker-java-api:3.3.6 began to require additional GraalVM Reachability Metadata. Refer to com.github.dockerjava.api.model.RuntimeInfo oracle/graalvm-reachability-metadata#492 .
• Removes hardcoding of port 39567 in Seata's unit tests.
• Updates testcontainers-java to avoid frequent docker pull behavior in a short period of time. Refer to Use Awaitility to Poll the Image Pull testcontainers/testcontainers-java#8453 .

# https://github.com/testcontainers/testcontainers-java/issues/8454
TC logs roughly 14 mb of logs during the 2 minutes of pulling and thousands of requests.

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