Replaces with com.tisonkun.os:os-detector-maven-plugin to support building with Maven 4.0.0-beta-4

[linghengqian]

Fixes #32568.

Changes proposed in this pull request:

• Replaces with com.tisonkun.os:os-detector-maven-plugin to support building with Maven 4.0.0-beta-4. According to the investigation extension of Plugin fails with Maven 4 trustin/os-maven-plugin#72 and Provides a replacement for `kr.motd.maven:os-maven-plugin` for Java binding documentation opendal#5133 , https://github.com/trustin/os-maven-plugin has actually stopped maintenance and has never supported Maven 4.0.0-beta-4. See Support Maven 4 and JDK 21 at build time trustin/os-maven-plugin#74 .
• We now have https://github.com/tisonkun/os-detector to replace kr.motd.maven:os-maven-plugin. This clears the way for future apache/opendal integration ( Support for using AES in JCA to encrypt and decrypt YAML values ​​in JDBC Driver #32872 (comment) ). See fix: compatible with Maven 4 tisonkun/os-detector#9 and feat: support Maven 4.0.0-beta-4 tisonkun/os-detector#8 .
• For ShardingSphere, only the org.apache.shardingsphere:shardingsphere-data-pipeline-cdc module needs to use com.tisonkun.os:os-detector-maven-plugin.
• Since Maven 4.0.0-beta-3 began to require JDK17 runtime, there is no way to simply test ShardingSphere, which still uses JDK8 in CI. ShardingSphere has never required contributors to use Maven Toolchains to configure multiple JDKs locally, although ShardingSphere's documentation has required the use of SDKMAN! for testing in many places. We cannot expect the concept of builder POM and consumer POM to be introduced quickly right away. Also see linghengqian/hive-server2-jdbc-driver@b04c335 and linghengqian/hive-server2-jdbc-driver@00de0c5 .
• But starting from this PR, nothing can affect building ShardingSphere with GraalVM CE For JDK 22.0.2 and Maven 4.0.0-beta-4. Includes unit tests under HotSpot JDK and GraalVM Native Image. For example,

sdk install java 22.0.2-graalce
sdk install maven 4.0.0-beta-4
git clone git@github.com:apache/shardingsphere.git
cd ./shardingsphere/
sdk use java 22.0.2-graalce
sdk use maven 4.0.0-beta-4
mvn clean install -Prelease -T1C -DskipTests -Djacoco.skip=true -Dcheckstyle.skip=true -Drat.skip=true -Dmaven.javadoc.skip=true

• Enjoy it,

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[INFO] Finished at: 2024-09-24T20:59:40+08:00
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