feat: support PodManagementPolicy for the instanceSet controller

[sophon-zt]

1. KingbaseES depends on this OrderedReady strategy

[codecov]

Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 66.09%. Comparing base (3f405b3) to head (7835c0b).
Report is 4 commits behind head on main.

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[sophon-zt]

/cherry-pick release-0.9

[github-actions]

🤖 says: Error cherry-picking.

Auto-merging apis/apps/v1alpha1/componentdefinition_types.go
Auto-merging apis/apps/v1alpha1/zz_generated.deepcopy.go
Auto-merging config/crd/bases/apps.kubeblocks.io_componentdefinitions.yaml
Auto-merging deploy/helm/crds/apps.kubeblocks.io_componentdefinitions.yaml
Auto-merging docs/developer_docs/api-reference/cluster.md
Auto-merging pkg/controller/component/synthesize_component.go
CONFLICT (content): Merge conflict in pkg/controller/component/synthesize_component.go
error: could not apply 3c6237e... feat: support PodManagementPolicy for the instanceSet controller (#7540)
hint: After resolving the conflicts, mark them with
hint: "git add/rm ", then run
hint: "git cherry-pick --continue".
hint: You can instead skip this commit with "git cherry-pick --skip".
hint: To abort and get back to the state before "git cherry-pick",
hint: run "git cherry-pick --abort".
hint: Disable this message with "git config advice.mergeConflict false"

[github-actions]

🤖 says: ‼️ cherry pick action failed.
See: https://github.com/apecloud/kubeblocks/actions/runs/9558308744