Execute the entire request pipeline if the client closed the connection

[Geal]

Fix #4569
Fix #4576
Fix #4589
Fix #4590
Fix #4611

When the client closes the connection prematurely, it drops the entire request handling task, which means that it won't go through the entire response pipeline, where we record the operation and handle telemetry. Some users also have additional steps with rhai or coprocessors where they add metadata, and those steps should run even on canceled requests. This moves the request handling to a separate task to make sure it runs, but it also skips subgraph requests if we detected that the client closed the connection, to prevent unneeded traffic.

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CI performance tests

• reload - Reload test over a long period of time at a constant rate of users
• events_big_cap_high_rate_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users, deduplication enabled and high rate event with a big queue capacity using callback mode
• events_without_dedup_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication DISABLED using callback mode
• large-request - Stress test with a 1 MB request payload
• const - Basic stress test that runs with a constant number of users
• no-graphos - Basic stress test, no GraphOS.
• step-jemalloc-tuning - Clone of the basic stress test for jemalloc tuning
• events - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication ENABLED
• events_callback - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication ENABLED in callback mode
• events_big_cap_high_rate - Stress test for events with a lot of users, deduplication enabled and high rate event with a big queue capacity
• events_without_dedup - Stress test for events with a lot of users and deduplication DISABLED
• xxlarge-request - Stress test with 100 MB request payload
• xlarge-request - Stress test with 10 MB request payload
• step - Basic stress test that steps up the number of users over time

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