Matter refactor autoconf

[s-hadinger]

Description:

Follow-up of #21870

More refactoring of autoonfiguration to simplify the main class. Also small bug fixed.

No functional change.

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• The pull request is done against the latest development branch
• Only relevant files were touched
• Only one feature/fix was added per PR and the code change compiles without warnings
• The code change is tested and works with Tasmota core ESP8266 V.2.7.7
• The code change is tested and works with Tasmota core ESP32 V.3.0.2
• I accept the CLA.

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