Fix #3012 - allow connect-sibling from any buffer

[yuhan0]

Fixes #3012

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If you're just starting out to hack on CIDER you might find this section of its
manual extremely useful.

[bbatsov]

Looks good. Thanks!

Note to self - we should replace this nil with 'infer at some point, so such code is easier to read/understand.