Merge #40647

40647: rocksdb/table: Always check key ordering when inserting to an SST r=itsbilal a=itsbilal

Updates c-deps/rocksdb to point to a patch in cockroach's RocksDB fork.
Commit message for that patch:

To prevent an out-of-order SSTable insertion from ever happening, this
change updates BlockBasedTableBuilder::Add to always assert on key
ordering being maintained at the insertion point, rather than only
running with debug builds. When an out-of-order key insertion is
detected, the status is set to Corrupted to prevent the BlockBasedTable
from being written.

Release note: None

Co-authored-by: Bilal Akhtar <bilal@cockroachlabs.com>