BaseTools: Add build option for dependency file generation

BZ: https://bugzilla.tianocore.org/show_bug.cgi?id=2311

Add /showIncludes for msvc and -MMD -MF $@.deps
for GCC and CLANG

Remove /MP for msvc since /MP does not work with
/showIncludes

Signed-off-by: Bob Feng <bob.c.feng@intel.com>

Cc: Liming Gao <liming.gao@intel.com>
Cc: Steven Shi <steven.shi@intel.com>
Cc: Michael D Kinney <michael.d.kinney@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Liming Gao <liming.gao@intel.com>