deps: add template for generated headers

OpenSSL 3.0 has a number of header files that are generated, and
currently these headers are copied into the architecture specific
directories. This is done for each asm type, 'asm', 'asm_avx2', and
'no-asm' which has takes up quite a lot of disk space and also becomes
an issue with the headers.tar file which has increased due to this.

This commit adds copies the headers to a common directory for the
architecture, for example with linux-x86_64 there will be a directory
named deps/openssl/config/archs/linux-x86_64/common/include where the
headers will be copied (into subdirectories 'openssl' and 'crypto'.
And in the original locations a header file with the same name will be
generated which points (includes) the common header file.

PR-URL: nodejs#42616
Fixes: nodejs#42081
Reviewed-By: James M Snell <jasnell@gmail.com>
Reviewed-By: Richard Lau <rlau@redhat.com>

deps/openssl/config/arch_include.h.tmpl

@@ -0,0 +1 @@
+#include "%%- $path -%%"