backport: merge bitcoin#22976, #23242, #23155, #22787, #23602, #12315, #22805, #23640, #23879, #24154, #23975, #12677, #23408, partial bitcoin#20861 (auxiliary backports: part 23)

backport: merge bitcoin#22976, #23242, #23155, #22787, #23602, #12315, #22805, #23640, #23879, #24154, #23975, #12677, #23408, partial bitcoin#20861 (auxiliary backports: part 23) #7919