Update duckdb, apply patches, move to extension ci tools #75

Job	Run time
Build extension binaries / Generate matrix	6s
Build extension binaries / MacOS (osx_amd64, x86_64, x64-osx)	12m 48s
Build extension binaries / Windows (windows_amd64, x64-windows-static-md)	30m 1s
Build extension binaries / MacOS (osx_arm64, arm64, arm64-osx)	14m 31s
Build extension binaries / DuckDB-Wasm (wasm_mvp, wasm32-emscripten)	7m 50s
Build extension binaries / Linux (linux_amd64, ubuntu:18.04, x64-linux)	19m 17s
Build extension binaries / Windows (windows_amd64_mingw, x64-mingw-static)	1h 3m 19s
Build extension binaries / DuckDB-Wasm (wasm_eh, wasm32-emscripten)	8m 9s
Build extension binaries / Linux (linux_amd64_gcc4, quay.io/pypa/manylinux2014_x86_64, x64-linux)	20m 1s
Build extension binaries / DuckDB-Wasm (wasm_threads, wasm32-emscripten)	7m 55s
Build extension binaries / Linux (linux_arm64, ubuntu:18.04, arm64-linux)	21m 44s
Build extension binaries / Linux (linux_amd64_musl, alpine:3, x64-linux)	24m 19s
Deploy extension binaries	0s
	3h 50m 0s

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