[7.x] Add @elastic/safer-lodash-set as an alternative to lodash.set (#67452)

[azasypkin]

Backports the following commits to 7.x:

• Add @elastic/safer-lodash-set as an alternative to lodash.set (Add @elastic/safer-lodash-set as an alternative to lodash.set #67452)

[kibanamachine]

💚 Build Succeeded

• continuous-integration/kibana-ci/pull-request
• Commit: c621e99

Build metrics

@kbn/optimizer bundle module count

id	value	diff	baseline
beats_management	233	+58	175
canvas	883	+58	825
core	434	+58	376
data	262	+58	204
esUiShared	175	+58	117
infra	658	+58	600
kibanaLegacy	86	+58	28
monitoring	275	+58	217
savedObjectsManagement	73	+58	15
securitySolution	932	+169	763
upgradeAssistant	84	+58	26
visTypeTimeseries	327	+4	323
visTypeVislib	296	+58	238
visualizations	77	+58	19
watcher	107	+58	49
total	-	+927	-

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