Bridge Mode: Make TurboModule invalidation more robust (#38357)

Summary:
Pull Request resolved: #38357

## Context
On iOS, NSNotificationCenter facilitates event dispatch:
- People can dispatch events **to** objects.
- People can subscribe to events coming **from** objects.

(By specifying objects, NSNotificationCenter also implements event filtering).

The TuboModule system uses NSNotificationCenter to implement module invalidation:
- The bridge dispatches invalidation notifications to its parentBridge object.
- The TurboModuleManager listens to those invalidation notifications from the parentBridge object.

## Problem
In some apps, the TurboModuleManager never invalidates modules.

The bridge dispatches its invalidation notifications to nil: the parentBridge gets deallocated before bridge invalidation finishes.

But, the TurboModuleManager never receives those invalidation notifications: it is listening to invalidation notifications coming from a non-nil parentBridge.

## Fix
Make the TurboModuleManager listen to invalidation notifications from all objects. It will just manually noop invalidation if the notification's bridge object doesn't match its own bridge object. (This is existing logic).

Changelog: [Internal]

Reviewed By: javache

Differential Revision: D47485910

fbshipit-source-id: 163403ef01f7d164a0e482f0f770a801d572503b

packages/react-native/ReactCommon/react/nativemodule/core/platform/ios/ReactCommon/RCTTurboModuleManager.mm

@@ -246,11 +246,11 @@ - (instancetype)initWithBridge:(RCTBridge *)bridge
     [[NSNotificationCenter defaultCenter] addObserver:self
                                              selector:@selector(bridgeWillInvalidateModules:)
                                                  name:RCTBridgeWillInvalidateModulesNotification
-                                               object:_bridge.parentBridge];
+                                               object:nil];
     [[NSNotificationCenter defaultCenter] addObserver:self
                                              selector:@selector(bridgeDidInvalidateModules:)
                                                  name:RCTBridgeDidInvalidateModulesNotification
-                                               object:_bridge.parentBridge];
+                                               object:nil];
   }
   return self;
 }