fix: sealing: always do cooldown in handleSubmitReplicaUpdateFailed

[magik6k]

handleSubmitReplicaUpdateFailed seems to have a bunch of paths which can lead us to retry in a loop wasting a ton of resources. Adding a cooldown to it at least makes sure we don't kill the miner node when we enter one of those fail loops.

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #8353 (5884385) into master (a94e47c) will decrease coverage by 0.01%.
The diff coverage is 50.00%.

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- Coverage   40.23%   40.22%   -0.02%     
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  Files         682      682              
  Lines       74428    74428              
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- Hits        29946    29935      -11     
- Misses      39247    39255       +8     
- Partials     5235     5238       +3     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
extern/storage-sealing/states_failed.go	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)
extern/storage-sealing/input.go	55.55% <100.00%> (+0.21%)	⬆️
markets/retrievaladapter/client_blockstore.go	62.50% <0.00%> (-6.25%)	⬇️
storage/wdpost_sched.go	77.45% <0.00%> (-3.93%)	⬇️
chain/vm/mkactor.go	48.48% <0.00%> (-3.04%)	⬇️
extern/storage-sealing/currentdealinfo.go	72.97% <0.00%> (-1.81%)	⬇️
miner/miner.go	56.39% <0.00%> (-1.64%)	⬇️
chain/gen/gen.go	68.19% <0.00%> (-1.23%)	⬇️
chain/messagepool/selection.go	83.52% <0.00%> (-0.78%)	⬇️
chain/sync_manager.go	73.91% <0.00%> (-0.63%)	⬇️
... and 11 more