Add NON_GCP_PRIVATE_IP_PORT as networkEndpointType for NetworkEndpointGroup

[modular-magician]

This change adds NON_GCP_PRIVATE_IP_PORT as a network_endpoint_type option for the google_compute_network_endpoint_group resource. This is in support for Hybrid Load Balancing.

I added two examples: one with a basic google_compute_network_endpoint_group with the new type, and one with a global external managed load balancer with hybrid connectivity (roughly following the configuration at https://cloud.google.com/load-balancing/docs/https/setting-up-ext-https-hybrid). I also added documentation about the valid combination of this new type and backend service load balancing scheme/balancing modes.

Part of #10040

For posterity, this change also sets the instance attribute on the google_compute_network_endpoint resource to be optional, as Hybrid connectivity NEGs use endpoints with just IP and PORT (without an instance). See https://cloud.google.com/load-balancing/docs/negs#hybrid-neg and https://cloud.google.com/load-balancing/docs/https/setting-up-ext-global-https-hybrid#set_up_the_hybrid_connectivity_neg for more details.

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compute: add `NON_GCP_PRIVATE_IP_PORT` value for `network_endpoint_type` in the `google_compute_network_endpoint_group` resource

compute: Update `instance` attribute for `google_compute_network_endpoint` to be optional, as Hybrid connectivity NEGs use network endpoints with just IP and Port.

Derived from GoogleCloudPlatform/magic-modules#5684

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