chore(aws-cdk-lib): enable strip deprecated (aws#14169)

Previously, we had turned off strip deprecated - a3d2209 - due to a
bug in the underling jsii feature.

This has since been fixed - aws/jsii@e87d879f - and released. Re-enable
deprecation stripping.

In addition, we are also backporting some changes that were done to this
file in the 'v2-main' branch.


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packages/aws-cdk-lib/package.json

@@ -33,7 +33,8 @@
   "cdk-build": {
     "eslint": {
       "disable": true
-    }
+    },
+    "stripDeprecated": true
   },
   "pkglint": {
     "exclude": [
@@ -52,15 +53,13 @@
       "dotnet": {
         "namespace": "Amazon.CDK",
         "packageId": "Amazon.CDK.Lib",
-        "iconUrl": "https://raw.githubusercontent.com/aws/aws-cdk/master/logo/default-256-dark.png",
-        "versionSuffix": "-devpreview"
+        "iconUrl": "https://raw.githubusercontent.com/aws/aws-cdk/master/logo/default-256-dark.png"
       },
       "java": {
-        "package": "software.amazon.awscdk.core",
+        "package": "software.amazon.awscdk",
         "maven": {
           "groupId": "software.amazon.awscdk",
-          "artifactId": "aws-cdk-lib",
-          "versionSuffix": ".DEVPREVIEW"
+          "artifactId": "aws-cdk-lib"
         }
       },
       "python": {