Add a scipt to sync linter deps before running lint

[dnephin]

Summary

Our custom linter is run by golangci-lint as a Go plugin. Go plugins must be built with the exact same version of Go, and the exact same version of all shared Go modules.

make lint will fail if someone updates golangci-lint on their local machine. This PR addresses the problem by adding a command to update the go.mod of the querylinter module based on the modules used by their local golangci-lint.

Usage:

From the internal/tools/querylinter directory, run

go run ./sync/sync-mod.go

[dnephin]

I amended the commit to have the script run go mod tidy.

We didn't notice it in the other PR because our tests now long run when specific files match. I'm going to fix the file filter in another PR.